Welcome to VaporTalk, DixiesMom!
So sorry to hear about the ordeals you've had to endure. Hopefully we can help make your future a bit easier and pleasant.
eGo-PT kit:
http://www.smartvapes.com/catalog/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=7_21&products_id=55
Prefilled Cartomizers: I think 12mg strength would be good to start with. Maybe an 18mg.
http://www.liquidxpress.com/Xpress-510-Cartomizers-c9/
(Taboo, Grape and Honey Flue Cured Tobacco are my favorites so far from there).
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You now have your kit and are vaping away.
4 hrs later, you need to change your carto. Sometimes faster than that. They do not have a 4hr guarantee... they have a 4hr hope. You will either need to replace your carto with another, or refill it.
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EMDCC comes to the rescue. These are called EGO Mega Dual Coil Cartomizers. They're huge. They are so huge even a shaky half blind person can refill them easily. (trust me). Best of all, they last all day. Cooler still, you can get some really fancy smancy epipe mouthpieces to fit them. (just ask Dayvape).
Where do you get these EMDCC's?
http://www.madvapes.com/eGo-Mega-Dual-Coil-Cartomizer-Flat-Tip_p_3225.html
and other places.
You're going to want to fill these babies with some great juices.
even Madvapes has some good juice nowadays. Pick up some blackberry while you're there.
Boba's Bounty from Avejuice.com wow
I could get going all day on good juices...
this is best left for when you come back and want to refill these babies with some good all day stuff.
We'll be here when you're ready.