You know, almost all of your post have said the exact same thing in one form or another. You want to vape and you want your wife to vape, who doesn't.
I'm not sure what point your trying to make on the forum or where your going with this, but members have already given you their input, many times over. I personally think it's idiotic to start vaping if you don't smoke. Why bother? To relax? Have a cup of tea, exercise or read a book.
Either way it's your choice, but please, stop posting the same topic/post over and over again.